Wednesday, December 31, 2008

Cruising With A Baby? - Don't Leave Home Without These Items!

By Brooklyn Sterritt

Our recent Caribbean cruise on Crown Princess ship with our 10 month old daughter was fantastic. We enjoyed it so much that we are starting to plan for another cruise in about a year.

Before we left on our cruise we had do some planning, making lists, checking lists, contacting the cruise line and so on - but all of our pre-trip planning was well worth the effort. Travelling with a baby means taking lots of extra things with you - and there are a lot of things to consider - but there are some items that you just cannot be without. Here is our list of the top ten items to take with you for your baby.

1. The most valuable thing that we took with us was our stroller. Our daughter loves being in the stroller and it was also great that our stroller folds - that way it was easy to take on an airplane, and it didn't take up much room in our cabin on the cruise ship. We used the stroller all the time. Every morning we walked our daughter on the promenade deck; we used the stroller every day to go to the ship's pools and dining rooms; we even used in the evening so that we can all enjoy the exciting evenings on board. Every evening after dinner we bathed our daughter, then put her in pyjamas, and then placed her back into her stroller. We then walked the ship with her, went to some clubs on the ship with her and before long she would fall fast asleep.

2. You cannot be without diapers. You can calculate how many diapers you will need on the trip by keeping track for a week or so before your trip of how many diapers your child uses in a typical day. Then simply multiply that number by the number of days in your vavcation. You also might want to consider waiting to buy the diapers in the city that you board your ship. That way you won't have to worry about checking them as luggage on your air flight (if your trip includes air travel). Our ship left from Ft Lauderdale Florida, and we had time between our flight arrival and the time to board the ship. We took a cab from the airport to a Kmart store and purchased the diapers and some other baby supplies before getting another taxi to the ship.

3. One thing to do on a cruise ship - especially when it is hot is to go to the kiddies pool with your child and cool off in the pool. In order for your child to go into the pool they have to wear swim diapers or they have to be toilet-trained.

4. Formula - consider packing enough powder formula for the duration of the trip. We purchased the required formula in Fort Lauderdale rather than bring it from home. Keep in mind that any formula entering the ship must be sealed & in the original container.

5. Kettle - taking a kettle (with an auto shutoff) on the trip means that you can boil water and know that you have safe water to mix with the powdered formula.

6. We took a formula dispenser with us. This allowed us greater flexibility for giving our daughter her bottle. Having the dispenser meant that we filled several bottles at a time with clean water and when baby is ready to have a bottle (anywhere on the ship), we just had to pour the premeasured formula into the bottle and give the bottle a shake.

7. Scented bags for dirty diapers. Because you will not have a diaper dispenser for dirty diapers with you - taking a supply of these bags will help reduce any bad odours in your room. They can be purchased at a dollar store or Babies r Us.

8. Bring baby soap for your child's bath. Our cabin did not have a bathtub and most cruise cabins won't have one. What you can do is plug the drain on the shower and put enough water in the shower in order to give your baby their bath.

9. Make sure that you bring something to protect your baby from the heat and sun, especially if you plan on spending much time in the sun with your child during the cruise. Before we left home we purchased a lightweight sun cabana. We used the cabana on two beaches and on the pool deck near the kiddies pool. It kept us and our baby comfortable and protected from the sun. To rent a cabana on the private island that our ship stopped would have cost us about $90. The cabana that we brought with us cost less than $50 and we use it all the time.

10. Zip lock bags - these are great for everything - snack holders, put really dirty/soiled clothes away until you get home. Use for things that leak - (ex. medicine). Use the bags on the ship to pack bibs, spoons to go for dinner so when they are dirty you can throw in the bag & clean when you get back to your room.

There are more items to consider, but start your list with these essentials items.

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Babysitter Search Options: Finding The Best Sitter

By Rashel Dan

Are you on a babysitter search? Then you know how difficult it may be to find a good one. There are a couple of good places where you could start looking for a sitter. Here are some of them:

Neighborhood

Start in your community. Some of your teen neighbors may be willing to baby sit for you. You could also put up an ad on your front lawn and wait for community members to apply. Another way would be to personally ask your neighbors if they know of any good sitters. Many parents swear that this is by far still the best way to get a good sitter. Your neighbor can vouch for the ability and character of your sitter. Then again, even neighbors can make mistakes. They may not be fully aware of a sitter's entire background or history.

Schools

Another option would be to look for sitters in your local high school or colleges. Many students on these levels need some extra cash for school needs and extra expenses. Advertising in a few online or offline school boards would guarantee that you would have more than a handful of prospects.

With sitters from local schools, you'll be able to learn more about the sitter's background. Most likely, they wouldn't have criminal records. Otherwise they wouldn't be in school. Nonetheless, you should still carefully screen applicants from schools to determine their character and ability.

Agencies

Agencies for Babysitters - Your babysitter search can also begin in agencies. Many agencies have been around for decades. They would therefore have a lot of experience in gathering good sitters. Agencies also provide you with the option of stay in or stay out sitters. They usually conduct background investigations on their applicants to ensure that you get a good sitter. Agencies however typically cost a lot. This is especially if you need to get a stay in sitter from another region or country. You may have to spend a thousand dollars or more to get a good sitter.

Advertisements

The Yellow Pages - People who wish to offer their services typically advertise. You can look through newspapers, yellow pages and even online job posts to find a baby sitter in your area. You would be hiring a virtual stranger though. This means that if you get a sitter through an advertisement, you would have to spend a great amount of time interviewing, screening and scrutinizing your prospects. You can never be too careful when it comes to the safety of your kids.

Online Services

Babysitting online services are just like agencies. They have databases of sitter prospects that you can choose from. Many modern online services however charge cheaper. For a monthly or yearly membership fee, you can get a stay in or stay out sitter of your choice. These services also typically conduct background checks on potential sitters and let parents personally interview prospects. You also benefit from a number of parent resources that can give you advice on dealing with sitters.

These places are just some of the possible good sources that can help you in your babysitter search. You can choose the method that is most convenient for you. You should however always put your child's safety and welfare first. Pick the option where you are most certain to get a reliable sitter.

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Monday, December 29, 2008

Christmas Jammies and Socks! Fun Kid Traditions for Holidays

By Edie Mindell

Let me take you back a few years. It is Christmas Eve. You are running about the house pausing every few moments to strain your ears for any sound resembling sleigh bells, flight or a boisterous 'ho, ho, ho'. What you do hear is mom calling that it is time to open a gift.

The first gift

You race as fast as you can to the tree. You hardly dare believe your ears: open a gift, now, tonight? Older siblings greet the news with less enthusiasm, and rather knowing expressions. Missing these subtle clues you tear into your box expecting to find the toy of your dreams. What you get are PJ's.

Your childish heart is only momentarily dampened, older siblings dive into new jammies with familiarity and gratitude. This scene repeats every year. You can mark holidays in photos by what jammies you are wearing, not the gift you open.

A New Night Dress

Flash forward; you are the parent creating and contemplating holiday traditions. As you and your spouse begin a family the need for holiday traditions becomes more personal and warm. Your baby may not remember opening a red pair of footie PJ's, but the photos will tell the story.

Christmas pajamas are a great way to curb, control or reward your toddler's Christmas enthusiasm. Knowing there is a special gift under the tree that they get to open on Christmas Eve will occupy their attention and relieve pestering questions of, "When can I open my presents?"...or "Can't I open just one?"

The practical side

As a toddler or child, it may not have occurred to you that your yearly gift of pajamas was not only fun, but practical. Christmas is in winter, and kids grow so fast. Often there is a need for warm pajamas that fit, which perfectly coincides with the advent of the holiday season. Making the necessary item into a fun tradition is a great way to meet two needs with one solution.

Toddler appeal

New parents might worry that their toddler will be less than pleased with this gift and feel cheated on Christmas Eve. This feeling of being slighted may lead their precious toddler to spoil the holiday spirit with a full-blown tantrum! Well, this is not usually the case. Toddlers just love to open gifts. They might show a preference for one toy over another once they are all opened, but if there is only one gift opened this is not an issue.

Toddlers also love to be included with what their parents or older siblings are doing. If mom, dad as well as brothers and sisters all get jammies, then your two year old is not going to be disappointed.

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Internet Holiday Shopping Can Save You Time, Stress and Money

By Edie Mindell

Don't fancy the idea of crowds and traffic? Do your shopping online. If you have had it with traditional holiday shopping you are not alone. Even the most fearless and most organized holiday shopping divas tire from the endless crowds and cheesy holiday music. Luck for us in this day and age there is another option: internet shopping.

Internet shopping is sweeping the nation and is quickly become a very normal occurrence. Yet as any shopping diva knows there are a few ins and outs that can greatly increase your success.

Shop Savvy

First off, just because you can shop from home in your undies does not mean that you need any less preparation. You are a shopping diva, after all, and just because you are taking your list into cyberspace instead of retail space does not eliminate the need to check it twice. Once you have prepared your list with the utmost care, then you are ready to shop.

Shop Safe

With identity theft being an ever-growing threat, one of the first things an internet shopping diva needs to know is how to make her funds secure. There are a few ways to do this. One of the first ways is to make certain you only give out credit card information on secured websites.

Check if the site is secure by looking for a padlock icon on your browser window. If there is no such icon, the site is not secure and you shouldn't give out your information. Never ever give out credit card information in email. Email is not secure.

Other security measures include using the same credit card to make all your online purchases. This card should carry a low spending limit. That way if your information is stolen the culprit can't rack up huge bills. Also using just one card eliminates the question of what card was used when or if you need to contest a charge.

Shop Smart

One of the great things about taking the shopping online is that there are tons of review websites. When shopping in person at Holiday Toddler Toy Emporium, the only review you are likely to get about a toy is from the box, fellow shoppers or the teenage sales clerk. These resources often leave much to be desired.

Not so with online stores. Reviews are plentiful, detailed and have real life experience. This kind of information at your fingertips will help you avoid poor purchases.

Shop Savings

Hesitate to shop online because you think the cost is too much? This is not true. You can use the same coupons online as in the store for cost savings. In addition to coupon savings you rarely need to pay sales tax on online purchases. This is a savings of on average 8% right back into your pocket.

Shipping costs are a concern, but if you shop early you can avoid high express shipping rates as well as the trip to the post office when you need to send your three-year-old nephew his Christmas gift.

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Consider Moses Baskets for Holiday and Unique Baby Shower Gifts

By Edie Mindell

A Christmas gift basket of a different sort for the newborn baby would be a moses basket. The moses baskets are the perfect gift for using when visiting family and friends as the baby will then have some where to sleep other than the car seat or other carrier.

What to get for the parents who seem to have everything and want for nothing is often a perplexing question. When babies are new it seems that gifts are showered upon them from all sides. New parents like to shop for and pamper their new babies. Friends and family also ask parents what their wants and needs are to insure that the baby is well supplied. Grandparents are perhaps the biggest spenders sparing no expense to spoil that baby even though the baby has not been born.

The Christmas Question

This initial cascade of baby gifts is fun, but the holiday season can create a problem: What can I possibly get for this baby that she doesn't already have in duplicate? Holiday shopping should be fun, especially when the gift is for a baby or toddler. To this end when searching for that perfect Christmas gift for baby think of obscure, but fun items that will enhance baby's well being but might be considered non-essential.

Non-essential items are more interesting to select and often fill a need mom or dad didn't even know they had. This is why these particular items often escape selection in the deluge of gift giving that precedes and follows the baby's birth. A perfect example of a great Christmas gift idea for a baby is the Moses Basket.

A basket?

Moses baskets are made to create a portable bed for baby. These baskets can be quite simple woven and lined with cute linens or very ornate with handles, frilly details complete with a shade canopy. A Moses basket allows baby a safe place sheltered from the drafts of winter to sleep or rest when mom or dad's arms are otherwise occupied.

Different from a swing, bouncy seat or play yard, Moses Baskets transport easily from room to room, take up very little space and create a warm snuggly bed.

What's the point?

This gift is the very definition of filling a need that mom didn't even know she had. Most new parents get the bouncy seat, which is portable and the baby swing, which is not so portable thinking that is plenty. What happens in reality is this: their tiny new born slips and slides so much in the bouncy chair that it can't be used until they get bigger with more muscle control. The swing works well but limits mom to being in the living room because it is difficult to move.

A Moses Basket solves these problems. The basket is easily moved from space to space. It is not large and is warmer and more supportive of new babies than a bouncy chair. The smaller size allows mom and dad to take baby with them to any room while they work or relax.

Form and function

Even the simplest Moses baskets are beautiful. This makes them a welcome addition to any dcor. Baby accessories like swings sometimes create an eyesore that parents can't wait to remove once they are out grown. A Moses basket does not carry this same stigma.

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Saturday, December 27, 2008

Lasting Holiday Memories Start with Christmas Jammies and Socks

By Edie Mindell

Let me take you back a few years. It is Christmas Eve. You are running about the house pausing every few moments to strain your ears for any sound resembling sleigh bells, flight or a boisterous 'ho, ho, ho'. What you do hear is mom calling that it is time to open a gift.

The first gift

You race as fast as you can to the tree. You hardly dare believe your ears: open a gift, now, tonight? Older siblings greet the news with less enthusiasm, and rather knowing expressions. Missing these subtle clues you tear into your box expecting to find the toy of your dreams. What you get are PJ's.

Your childish heart is only momentarily dampened, older siblings dive into new jammies with familiarity and gratitude. This scene repeats every year. You can mark holidays in photos by what jammies you are wearing, not the gift you open.

A New Night Dress

Flash forward; you are the parent creating and contemplating holiday traditions. As you and your spouse begin a family the need for holiday traditions becomes more personal and warm. Your baby may not remember opening a red pair of footie PJ's, but the photos will tell the story.

Christmas pajamas are a great way to curb, control or reward your toddler's Christmas enthusiasm. Knowing there is a special gift under the tree that they get to open on Christmas Eve will occupy their attention and relieve pestering questions of, "When can I open my presents?"...or "Can't I open just one?"

The practical side

As a toddler or child, it may not have occurred to you that your yearly gift of pajamas was not only fun, but practical. Christmas is in winter, and kids grow so fast. Often there is a need for warm pajamas that fit, which perfectly coincides with the advent of the holiday season. Making the necessary item into a fun tradition is a great way to meet two needs with one solution.

Toddler appeal

New parents might worry that their toddler will be less than pleased with this gift and feel cheated on Christmas Eve. This feeling of being slighted may lead their precious toddler to spoil the holiday spirit with a full-blown tantrum! Well, this is not usually the case. Toddlers just love to open gifts. They might show a preference for one toy over another once they are all opened, but if there is only one gift opened this is not an issue.

Toddlers also love to be included with what their parents or older siblings are doing. If mom, dad as well as brothers and sisters all get jammies, then your two year old is not going to be disappointed.

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Baby Memory Books Make Great Holiday and Unique Baby Shower Gifts

By Edie Mindell

A mother is not the only one who has memories of baby and toddlerhood. Grandparents also play a very important part in the making and keeping of a child's memories.

The advent of the holiday season marks the passing of another year. Each of us becomes a bit more nostalgic than usual at this time so rich in tradition and with the reminders of ending and beginnings so close on every hand. As minds wander over the previous year and holidays past we can see those little ones that are dear to our hearts and mark their growth with each Christmas.

It is often difficult to believe that the little one that runs about the house with pattering feet and a barely decipherable chatter was little more than a roly-poly smiling bundle at this same time last year.

Good intentions

Each baby is born to mothers who have the best of intentions to record and photograph each moment of this child's life. Many mothers rise to this challenge amid hectic schedules and life's demands. Yet few remain as committed to the scrapbook of the last child as they were with the first. Some mothers just don't have time to even begin and those cute baby memory books remain untouched as the years pass.

Filling a need

Moms and Dads are not the only persons in a child's life that have memories to record and share. Aunties and Grandmas also love and care for these babies from birth to the toddler years and right on up. This year why not give a gift that records and shares these precious memories with your precious baby?

Photos that are locked on computer hard drives or remain hidden on memory chips in cameras aren't very accessible. Toddlers love to see pictures of themselves and hear stories featuring them as they were when they were a baby. A memory book dedicated to them will be a big hit.

The toddler is not the only one who will appreciate the memory book. Moms from the dedicated scrap booking enthusiast to the mom who never even started will appreciate photos of her child that are already arranged, journaled and require nothing of her time and energy other than pure enjoyment.

Unique perspective

Grandmas and Aunties have a unique perspective that they can share. As a grandparent or sibling you can share memories of the baby as well as the parent you knew as a child. Pointing out similarities in looks, behavior and attitudes is often fun for both the toddler and their parent to discover. You can also laugh more readily at the natural naughtiness of childhood. As a loved one not in the parental role it is a funny occurrence - not a tragic mess - when the toothpaste is emptied from the tube, or the butter is eaten in huge bites right from the cube.

Getting started

To start your memory book Christmas gift give yourself time to complete it. The value of this gift is in its creation and not the monetary investment, so make sure you give it the time it deserves. The internet will be your best friend. You can get the photos you need by sending them directly from your PC to the photo shop via email. This saves time and gas. If you have the capability you can even print the photos yourself at home.

Memory books come in all shapes and sizes. You can get a one-time book that you can fill, or you can get a book that allows for the addition of pages as the years roll on. Browse online to find the book that is right for you, and then get to work. This is one gift that will be pleasing to giver and recipient alike.

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Friday, December 26, 2008

Christmas Jammies and Socks! Fun Kid Traditions for Holidays

By Edie Mindell

Let me take you back a few years. It is Christmas Eve. You are running about the house pausing every few moments to strain your ears for any sound resembling sleigh bells, flight or a boisterous 'ho, ho, ho'. What you do hear is mom calling that it is time to open a gift.

The first gift

You race as fast as you can to the tree. You hardly dare believe your ears: open a gift, now, tonight? Older siblings greet the news with less enthusiasm, and rather knowing expressions. Missing these subtle clues you tear into your box expecting to find the toy of your dreams. What you get are PJ's.

Your childish heart is only momentarily dampened, older siblings dive into new jammies with familiarity and gratitude. This scene repeats every year. You can mark holidays in photos by what jammies you are wearing, not the gift you open.

A New Night Dress

Flash forward; you are the parent creating and contemplating holiday traditions. As you and your spouse begin a family the need for holiday traditions becomes more personal and warm. Your baby may not remember opening a red pair of footie PJ's, but the photos will tell the story.

Christmas pajamas are a great way to curb, control or reward your toddler's Christmas enthusiasm. Knowing there is a special gift under the tree that they get to open on Christmas Eve will occupy their attention and relieve pestering questions of, "When can I open my presents?"...or "Can't I open just one?"

The practical side

As a toddler or child, it may not have occurred to you that your yearly gift of pajamas was not only fun, but practical. Christmas is in winter, and kids grow so fast. Often there is a need for warm pajamas that fit, which perfectly coincides with the advent of the holiday season. Making the necessary item into a fun tradition is a great way to meet two needs with one solution.

Toddler appeal

New parents might worry that their toddler will be less than pleased with this gift and feel cheated on Christmas Eve. This feeling of being slighted may lead their precious toddler to spoil the holiday spirit with a full-blown tantrum! Well, this is not usually the case. Toddlers just love to open gifts. They might show a preference for one toy over another once they are all opened, but if there is only one gift opened this is not an issue.

Toddlers also love to be included with what their parents or older siblings are doing. If mom, dad as well as brothers and sisters all get jammies, then your two year old is not going to be disappointed.

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Christmas Jammies and Socks Make for Lasting Holiday Memories

By Edie Mindell

Let me take you back a few years. It is Christmas Eve. You are running about the house pausing every few moments to strain your ears for any sound resembling sleigh bells, flight or a boisterous 'ho, ho, ho'. What you do hear is mom calling that it is time to open a gift.

The first gift

You race as fast as you can to the tree. You hardly dare believe your ears: open a gift, now, tonight? Older siblings greet the news with less enthusiasm, and rather knowing expressions. Missing these subtle clues you tear into your box expecting to find the toy of your dreams. What you get are PJ's.

Your childish heart is only momentarily dampened, older siblings dive into new jammies with familiarity and gratitude. This scene repeats every year. You can mark holidays in photos by what jammies you are wearing, not the gift you open.

A New Night Dress

Flash forward; you are the parent creating and contemplating holiday traditions. As you and your spouse begin a family the need for holiday traditions becomes more personal and warm. Your baby may not remember opening a red pair of footie PJ's, but the photos will tell the story.

Christmas pajamas are a great way to curb, control or reward your toddler's Christmas enthusiasm. Knowing there is a special gift under the tree that they get to open on Christmas Eve will occupy their attention and relieve pestering questions of, "When can I open my presents?"...or "Can't I open just one?"

The practical side

As a toddler or child, it may not have occurred to you that your yearly gift of pajamas was not only fun, but practical. Christmas is in winter, and kids grow so fast. Often there is a need for warm pajamas that fit, which perfectly coincides with the advent of the holiday season. Making the necessary item into a fun tradition is a great way to meet two needs with one solution.

Toddler appeal

New parents might worry that their toddler will be less than pleased with this gift and feel cheated on Christmas Eve. This feeling of being slighted may lead their precious toddler to spoil the holiday spirit with a full-blown tantrum! Well, this is not usually the case. Toddlers just love to open gifts. They might show a preference for one toy over another once they are all opened, but if there is only one gift opened this is not an issue.

Toddlers also love to be included with what their parents or older siblings are doing. If mom, dad as well as brothers and sisters all get jammies, then your two year old is not going to be disappointed.

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Tips On Parenting And Baby Care

By Ferdinand Okeke

Knowing that you are pregnant is the best news of all. Well, second to hearing the grand proposal of a lifetime. After a successful wedding ceremony, hearing that your love has borne fruit is the icing on the cake. For first time expecting mothers, it is a onerous and herculean task to search and look for all the right stuff and equipment the baby will need. Newbie Moms need to list down all the things the baby would need at the soonest possible time so that little by little, each item can already be purchased and readied for the baby's entrance to the world. But there is another easy way to almost have it all, without getting too much headache over it. The solution is to hold a baby shower party! The only headache mom - to - be would have is the menu she would have to prepare on that day and that is easier for her.

Do not forget how you looked when you were a baby? This game takes you down memory lane as you need to dig up those baby pictures of yours. Because you need them to play the baby game shower Here's Lookin' At You, Kid! Before the party itself, request all the guests coming to bring the cutest baby picture of themselves. Upon their arrival, secure each baby picture and assign a number per picture. During the game, lay all baby pictures and give each participant paper and pen and ask them to identify as many baby pictures as they can. The guest that has the most number of correct guesses is the big winner.

The Baby Registry service is a product of Babies R Us teaming up with Amazon.com. Parents that are expecting their baby are permitted to create an online baby registry or update a registry that was set up on one of the Babies R Us stores nationwide. What this registry rids the parents is the inconvenience of coping with geographic barriers and presumption of which goods suit your baby. This way, when your friends and relatives plan to buy your baby a gift, it wont be that much of a hassle anymore. All that they have to do is visit online, select, buy and get the gift delivered to you on time. All the land - based Baby R Us stores allow all purchase returns as an added feature.

No matter what you have decided what the baby bash must be like, keep in mind that the baby's comfort is more important. Sometimes, there are babies who are afraid of clowns. You must have an alternative activity in mind should this happen.

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Thursday, December 25, 2008

All about those Baby Car Seats - Dont be fooled Talk the Talk

By Douglas Hawkins

Whether you're buying a car seat for your first baby or your fifth, safety is always an issue. As parents, we do all that we can to ensure the safety of our children. When it comes to picking out baby car seats , all of the terms and labels can get confusing. How can you pick the best seat for you, your baby, and your car, if you don't even know what half of the wordy descriptions mean? The following paragraphs will explane things to help you find a little clarity and simplify your choice. The terms and definitions are meant to be a guide. To ensure maximum safety for your child, speak to a customer service professional in this area and be certain that the baby car seat fits perfectly into your vehicle and that it does, in fact, meet your specific needs.

The AAP, well this term stands for the American Academy of Pediatrics. It is their recommendation that children remain rear facing in their car seats until they are one year old and 20 pounds.

Angle indicators- Device that lets parents know whether the car seat is appropriately positioned and at the right level of incline on the vehicle seat. The base is a solid plastic frame that holds and locks in the infant carrier. Can remain in the car or travel along with the infant carrier (see detachable base).

Belt positioning boosters- Booster seats that use the vehicles restraints as the child's seat belt. These are available with or without backs.

Booster seats- Smaller car seats designed for children who have outgrown the size and age limits of infant carriers and front facing car seats (4 and up). These are locked into place with the vehicle seat belt.

Car seat boot- Meant to keep the child comfy and warm, this blanket-like cover fits on the car seat and keeps baby snug.

Car seat cover- A great idea in the summer, these covers fit over the entire car seat, covering them from the sunlight coming into you car.

Car seat tote- Great for travelers, the car seat tote zips the car seat right up inside so that a passenger can check the seat in just as they would any other luggage. They are designed for easy carrying through the airport.

Combination seats- Seats designed with the interest of saving money. They provide more than one option such as a rear facing, front facing, and booster seat (see Three-In-One).

Convertible Car Seat- Just as the name says, the convertible car seat converts to another style so that parents can use one car seat instead of buying two or three.

Detachable base- (See base) Can be left in the car or at home. The car seat snaps easily in and out but the seat is also usable without the base.

Double head support- For use with car seats, strollers, and infant carriers, the soft padding provides support for baby's head and neck.

Five point harness- An option when purchasing car seats: two shoulder straps, two hips straps, one strap between legs.

Front facing- When your child has reached the weight and age limit, he or she can have their car seat turned so that they, like you, are facing the front of the car. You can buy a front facing car seat or a combination seat with this option.

Harness- The car seat straps that keep baby snuggly and safely within the seat. Not to be used on their own to secure babySeat must be secured with vehicle seat belt.

Harness adjusters- These allow you to position the harness securely and safely while it prevents the restraints from moving or twisting. Adjusters should rest parallel with baby's armpits.

Harness covers- Soft material that wraps around the harness, usually and the shoulder level, to prevent harness from 'digging in' to baby.

Harness slots- Where harness feeds through car seat. Be sure that your harness is properly attached and securely fits the child.

Head support- A soft pillow-like pad that surrounds the baby's head. Meant for car seats, infant seats, and can be used in strollers. Keeps baby's head secure.

Infant carriers- Car seats for newborn babies, but can be used until child is up to 22 pounds (check individual car seat for weight restrictions).

Installation- Refers to how the car seat is placed and secured in your vehicle. If uncertain of how to install, discuss with a customer service specialist and always read directions.

Integrated seats- Car seats that can be custom built right into your vehicle.

LATCH- Stands for Lower Anchors and Tethers for Children, which refers to a way of securing the car seat to the vehicle with straps or tethers.

Leveler- A long, round, pillow like device that rests on the vehicle seat to even out the car seat and prevent it from leaning too far one way.

Manufacturer- The company responsible for making your car seat. They generally provide your warranty.

Model- The style of car seat which you purchase. (i.e. Cosco Infant carrier: Infant carrier is the model, Cosco is the make).

Night sight- A car mirror system designed to allow you to see baby in the back seat, at night, while you are driving.

Overhead shield- A large arm rest like shield that comes down over the baby's head and rests on the car seat, just above baby's legs.

Proper fit- How the car seat fits into your vehicle and whether or not it shifts and is securely fastened.

Rain shield- Designed for infant carriers, they cover the baby from the rain and zip up around the carrier.

Rear facing- Larger car seats for when baby has outgrown the infant carrier, but still must remain rear facing. You can purchase a rear facing or a combination seat.

Recall- When a product has been called back by the manufacturer because a defect or problem has been identified. It is important to fill out your warranty card in case a recall is necessary.

Restraints- Seat belts that hold the child or the car seat in place.

Safety mirrors- Mirrors that attach to your car visor so that you may see baby in the back seat while you are driving.

Safety seats- Another term for car seats.

Seat protectors- A plastic guard to protect the vehicle seat from any sort of damage from the car seat. Rests between vehicle seat and car seat.

Seat shade- A device that shields baby's car seat from the hot sun while your car is parked.

Shield boosters- A booster seat that is equipped with a full five point harness.

Sit and stroll- A convenient combination set that includes an infant carrier that sits in and detaches easily from a baby stroller.

Six point harness- Car seat comes with six straps: two at shoulder, two at hips, and two between legs.

Size limit- The height and weight restrictions placed upon individual car seats. Not all car seats have the same height and weight limits.be sure to look for this information.

T shield- A plastic shield that rests on child's chest and is attached to the harness to keep straps from moving or shifting.

Tether straps- Anchors that attach to the vehicle and the car seat so that car seat is more secure. (Many vehicles now come with built in tethers; if not you should have one installed.)

Three in One- A car seat that offers three options: rear facing, front facing, and booster.

Three point harness- Has three straps: two at shoulders, one between legs.

Toy bars- Toys that can hook on and attach to the car seat for baby's amusement.

Travel systems- Offers a combination pack where you can purchase an infant carrier and a stroller all in one. (See sit and stroll.)

Travel toys- Toys that can provide pleasure for the baby and easily attach to infant carriers.

Travel vests- A safety system for older vehicles that only contain lap belts rather than lap and shoulder belts.

Warranty- Given by the manufacturer, it guarantees the product in specific areas for a given amount of time.

Weight limit- The maximum capacity that the car seat can hold.

There you have it. Now that you know a little more about what to look for in a baby car seat, you will be better prepared when you go shopping and you can feel good about your choice!

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Cloth Diapers - Are They Better?

By Jane Bear

It is very important that babies be kept clean always since they have little or no control over their bodily functions. Proper hygiene is essential for the babies' well being. However, keeping them clean can be a very tough job. Good thing, cloth diapers can help remedy this problem.

Less than thirty years ago, disposable diapers were considered a luxury, so the only option was cotton diapers, which require a ton of laundry work. Nowadays, an increasing number of people use cotton diapers, and people that use these diapers for their babies are considered to be odd. There are several reasons that the parents of today might want to use cotton diapers instead of disposables, and, believe it or not, cloth diapers are starting to make a bit of a comeback.

For most parents, the cost of diapers is usually a great concern. A cloth diaper is lower-priced and it is also reusable, so one cloth nappy serves as well as many disposable ones.

The greatest concern for parents is to keep the skin of their babies dry, healthy and free from diaper rash. A cloth diaper is soft against your baby's skin. They are also free of the many chemicals contained in disposable diapers. A baby can be very sensitive to the ingredients used in disposable diapers.

It is estimated that cloth nappies only take around six months to degrade in landfill site, while disposable diapers are the third most common consumer product in landfills today, and they may take up to 500 years to decompose.

In recent years, cotton diapers have become more user friendly, very different from the ones used many years ago. Cotton diapers that are pre-formed with snaps or hook and loop fasteners (similar to Velcro) and all-in-one diapers with waterproof exteriors are now available, in addition to the older pre-fold and pin variety. Many cotton diapers now have a flushable, biodegradable paper lining that will catch solid waste, allowing it to be easily disposed of in the toilet.

The cloth diaper-wearing children tend to be toilet trained earlier because the cloth retains moisture, allowing the child to feel when he or she is wet or dirty, and associate the feeling with elimination.

Comfortable, safe, economical, hygienic, environment-friendly, durable; with so many merits, it is no wonder cloth nappies are replacing disposable diapers everywhere. There can be no doubt that a cloth diaper is so good for your baby!

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Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Easy Daycare Activities

By Fran Jensen

Thinking up easy and creative daycare activities is one of the most difficult things about the childcare business, which is especially true with the wider range of ages you have. You obviously want the activities to be age appropriate for each child. At the same time, you must promote learning or any other positive result. You want to make it fun as well, or you will never keep the interest of the child.

It is likely that you will participate in some of the activities, but it is also necessary to have some activities ready which can keep them busy for awhile. This will allow you to look after a few of your other important duties. With all this on your mind, it can sometimes seem like you are doing the same daycare activities repeatedly. Here are a few simple activities to mix things up a bit, but still keep things beneficial and fun for the children.

Most daycare centers should provide at least some free play time. This allows the children to develop their creativity and learn some social skill at the same time. In addition to this, you'll also need to set up some more structured daycare activities. Allowing the children to write and draw is important, but doing it too often will become boring for the children and they won't stay interested.

Choosing A Theme

Daycare activities which are theme based are fun and popular with the children. The possibilities are basically endless. Colors, animals, careers, seasonal or holiday themes are just some of the ideas that can get you started. Just about anything you can think of. You could have a coloring or drawing contest for example, or some of the activities could be arts or crafts.

Act Out a Story

Another neat idea is to come up with some type of story line and have the children act it out. You come up with the idea, and let the children create the story from there. This really lets them show off their creative side, and children of any age could participate. You could also take it a step further and allow the children to create their own costumes and props. This is a great way add some variety to your daycare activities.

Leave It To Them

Another thing you can do if you're out of ideas is simply ask the children what they would like to do. Maybe you could pick one day a week that could be kid's choice day. This would eliminate the worry of doing something the children aren't interested in. Have each child suggest an idea and take turns until everyone's ideas are used. This is not only fun, but it gives the children a sense of accomplishment and confidence.

Everyone Helping Out

Sometimes children like to help out adults with regular tasks, so try incorporating some of your daycare activities into the daily chores as well. Doing big people jobs gives them a sense of importance. Something as simple as arranging a book shelf or setting the table is good enough for them. If the child is actively involved and having fun, then it doesn't really matter exactly what the task is.

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The American Baby Shower - A Family Tradition Continues On

By Edie Mindell

The American baby shower is a celebration in which a new-coming child is welcomed into the world by family and friends, and is traditionally "showered" with baby gifts. Baby showers have become increasingly popular in the United States, and the custom of hosting a baby shower is a wonderful way of helping expectant parents get essential items for the infant, such as baby bedding, strollers, clothes, and diapers. In America, baby showers are generally held about one to two months before the baby's arrival. By having the baby shower a while before the baby is born, parents can be better prepared and have all the necessary articles, furniture, and appliances that a new baby will call for.

Although historians are not completely clear on exactly when the baby shower custom began in the world, there is evidence that shows the previous existence of what we would call today, a baby shower, in several ancient cultures. During the Roman, Egyptian, Indian, and Chinese eras, for example, newborn babies and their mothers were presented with a variety of hand-made gifts by family and friends, during beautiful feasts for the little girl that would celebrate their life. Historians believe that the American baby shower draws its origins from these ancient cultural traditions.

Baby showers did not become popular in North America until the baby boom era after World War II. They were actually held when the baby was presented after birth, and coincided with christenings and baptisms in the case of a religious family. These first baby showers were considered a women's event, and by no means allow men as guests. The original post-birth American baby showers also served the purpose of giving the new mother and baby some company while they were at home for the first month of the infant's life.

Today, the modern baby shower is usually held one to two months before the baby's due date, not after the newborn's birth, like it was originally held. There has also been a recent trend in which families are breaking social paradigms and constraints, and therefore, co-ed baby showers are becoming increasingly popular. It is now common that friends and relatives of both the mommy-to-be and the daddy-to-be are invited to celebrate the coming of a new member of the family, regardless of their gender.

The gift-giving process has definitely evolved since ancient times when guests would bring handmade gifts to "shower" the baby. In modern society, the expectant parents usually register with a department store or a baby specialty store in order to create a wish list. Friends and relatives would then go to the store that the parents are registered in, look them up in the registries by name, and print out the wish list. This is a great way for guests to know what the parents need or desire as gifts the new baby boy.

The modern American baby shower is a wonderful way of welcoming a new baby into this world. Baby showers are enjoyable and fun for both parents and guests, and they are the perfect occasion to celebrate life and help parents prepare for the new coming baby.

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Tuesday, December 23, 2008

First Baby's Christmas - Holiday Shopping Guide for Grandparents

By Edie Mindell

This is your first Christmas as the proud Grandparent. There is no greater joy than that of greeting a new baby, except perhaps that joy of greeting a new grandbaby. Grandparenthood is a special club that encourages reckless spoiling of those beloved creatures. There was no true maxim than that of: many a child is spoiled because you can't spank Grandma.

If this year is your first year celebrating Christmas as a grandparent, congratulations! Not since the magical days spent with your own children will the Holidays seem so full. There are however a few pitfalls that new grandparents are susceptible to. For a joyous celebration that won't create ill will here are a few tips to follow.

Holiday Gift Giving

This is the season of giving, and it is so much fun to give gifts to a toddler or baby. Baby clothes are so much fun to pick out and wrap. Toys are much more exciting to purchase and watch being unwrapped than the offerings for adults. It is easy to go overboard.

Remember, gifts are often expected at Christmas time, and they are very appreciated but an over abundance of gifts rivaling the collection of Ritchie Rich is not likely to engender the appreciation of the new parents. Try to set a limit for yourself. Your grandbaby does not need every single toy or pair of shoes you lay eyes on.

If you are not sure what the limit should be have an honest conversation with your grandbaby's parents. When everyone is on the same page from the beginning there is much less chance of hurting feelings or over stepping some unknown boundary.

Special Gifts

When it comes to specific gifts some are just off limits to grandparents. This means that perhaps your daughter-in-law feels it a parental right to purchase her baby girl that all important first doll. Perhaps it is the unknown wish of your child to present his or her own baby with a keepsake quilt.

The problem with these special gifts is not so much the desire to be the one to give it to the baby, but the symbolism behind it. The flip side of the special gift scenario is that of contraband gifts. Perhaps guns or overly frivolous Barbies have been placed on the no-no list by the baby's parent. As the grandparent you may have no idea what these special or contraband gifts might be.

Again it is time to discuss gift options with your grandbaby's parents. No grandparent wants to become the stereotypical 'in-law'. Keeping communication lines open will ensure that Christmas is a time of fun giving and spoiling that leaves everyone with feelings of love and respect.

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How to Treat Acid Reflux in Baby

By Richal Peyton

If you're suspecting acid reflux in baby, be aware that the condition doesn't just occur in older children and adults. Any suspicion of stomach related problems in your baby should be screened and diagnosed by a healthcare specialist. Babies suffering from acid reflux will show just about the same symptoms as adult sufferers. However, it can be more challenging to treat babies since they don't tend to follow certain methods all the time and may need more assistance. Take the steps in this article to effectively treat your baby.

Step 1: Watch Out For Symptoms

Coughing, spitting, bloody stool and vomiting are the common symptoms of acid reflux in baby. You may also notice that your baby is irritable and feeding poorly. A lot of babies actually experience these symptoms in the first 3 months.

However, some babies will experience more severe symptoms that may last from 12 to 18 months. Few babies have acid reflux due to other complications. These include breathing problems, poor growth, blood loss and irritability due to pain. While these complications can also be symptoms of acid reflux, they can be caused by other disorders.

Step 2: Have Your Baby Screened And Diagnosed

What usually happens is that your doctor will analyze your baby's symptoms and do a physical exam before giving you the result. If your doctor thinks your child may have a more severe condition, then he or she may recommend other diagnostic tests. These include lab tests, esophageal pH monitoring, upper GI series, and upper endoscopy.

Step 3: Follow Recommended Treatment

There are several forms of treatment that your doctor may recommend. You may be advised to continue breastfeeding to reduce symptoms of acid reflux in baby. You may also be asked to feed your baby smaller amounts and more frequently, as overfeeding tends to worsen the condition. You may also try thickening the baby formula and see if there is any improvement in the next 3 to 5 days, otherwise stop.

Step 4: Maintain Your Baby's Health

Most steps in treatment of acid reflux in babies are preventive measures. Because acid reflux mainly involves stomach acid and enzymes, the condition can always come back if you don't maintain your baby's overall health. Always try to relax your baby by feeding it in a quiet place, keeping pressure away from its abdomen, and not allowing it to do vigorous activities or sit in upright positions after feeding.

Continue feeding your baby with small portions only but frequently. Also burp your baby during and after feeding. This way, you can free the air accumulating in your baby's stomach and therefore reduce discomfort. Ditch the old baby bottle for a new one if the hole in its nipple is too large. Make sure that the hole is just the right size so that milk will not flow too fast. It shouldn't also be so small that your baby will become frustrated and swallow more air. Finally, let your baby sleep with some elevation under its back (about 30 degrees).

These simple preventive measures can help treat your baby's condition and prevent it from ever coming back. Just make sure that your doctor is informed about the methods you're doing at home so he or she can monitor any improvement in your child and advise when treatment should stop.

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Sunday, December 21, 2008

Hong Kong Domestic Helpers - Enjoying The Convenience at Home

By Alice Sy

A lot of people these days realize the benefits of hiring Hong Kong domestic helpers. For them, the convenience of having a hired help in the home far outweighs the monetary cost of maintaining one.

The services of domestic helpers in Hong Kong are relatively cheaper compared to those in other parts of the world, particularly, the United States. In the Western front, only the wealthiest and the most powerful are able to afford getting the services of a full time, live-in domestic helper, but in Hong Kong, even those belonging to the working class can get themselves a maid.

Domestic helpers in Hong Kong are paid differently, depending on their employers, but basically they should be earning not less than US$470 or HK$ 3,580.

Other than that, Hong Kong domestic helpers should be given a one day leave from work every week, food allowance of US$ 65 or HK$ 500 every month, medical and dental services, as well as sick leave with pay. After a year of service, they can also have a seven-day paid vacation leave.

In the event that you would also want to hire the services of Hong Kong domestic helpers, one way you can find a good one is by announcing it to your friends and family members. Also, when doing grocery shopping, look for signs being posted on walls of the supermarket. You can also find likely applicants in a number of manpower agencies.

Then again, even if the Hong Kong domestic helper is highly recommended by your best friend, you still need to exert effort in verifying her identity. Conducting an interview is necessary so you can find out for yourself if the domestic helper you intend to hire the services of has a valid working visa, has the ability to cook, has a health problem, is good with children and pets, and so on.

In case you are getting the services of a domestic helper in Hong Kong specifically for your kids, you can enroll them in certain health institutions offering courses in child care. You can ask around for those that have courses intended for domestic helpers. While you will need to shell out extra money for this, it can nonetheless give you a peace of mind.

Hiring a domestic helper enables you to do more things with your time. It goes without saying, then, that Hong Kong domestic helpers do make your life a lot easier.

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Useful Tips On Baby Gifts

By Don Pedro

Baby gifts are the nice cute gifts given to the mother of the coming child on a party mainly help by the aunt or other close relatives of the mother. Its not only important from the point of view that it gives a great deal of pleasure to the child bearing mom but it s also regarded as a way to show the affection for the coming child and the parents.

It's a trend to gift the mod and dad on the occasion. The items are called baby gifts. Usually these items are given with a view to welcoming the coming of the new baby. And the mother also in return thanks the organizers wholeheartedly.

The party should be well arranged. Moreover, the guests should be carefully invited. If you fail to invite all the important guests, somehow it will be a sentimental issue in the happy ceremony. So, take your time and fix your budget when you are going to arrange a party. Try to invite as many friends, relatives and closest ones of the mother as possible.

Baby gifts are a main attraction of a baby shower. The gift includes baby's diapers, clothing, toys, and bath or mealtime accessories. But it should be kept in mind while choosing the gift; it should be relevant to the child and be of some use. A cute little gift can bring smiles on the parents face.

However, choosing a baby gift can be time consuming. Its important to find something that will suit the occasion, something that will be of good use to the child. The most common baby gifts include the clothing of the baby, diapers, mealtime sets or bath time sets; baby's toys etc. choosing something different will reflect your creativity as well.

If you are about to go shopping for the baby gifts, make sure that you have enough time and you have planned well about your budget. There are myriads of options to choose from. However, if you don't have that much time there you will find many readily made baby gift packs.

Other gifts for the baby can be something like baby toys, or things that the baby might use. A piggy bank can be as cute as a gift. Giving a baby bank also inclines to the long term plans for the baby. When you buy the gift always match it with the baby's sex.

Many will appreciate a creative and useful gift. And it will last long and reflect the warms of your affection the baby and the parents. Little things like baby gifts can be invaluable as they are the signs of supports from the closest one of the parent, especially for the would be new mom.

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Friday, December 19, 2008

Personalized Christmas Gifts Add a Special Touch for the Toddler

By Edie Mindell

As the weather turns chilly and before the haunting sounds of Halloween parties and trick or treaters even begin to add their sound to the night, the thoughts of parents and grandparent are busily preparing for another holiday whose advent is announced in the happy haunts of Halloween.

Each year the love parents have for their children is shown in holiday outings, dozens of Christmas cookies, extra bedtime stories, an abundance of squeezes all given in anticipation of the culmination of the family gathering together on Christmas Day to celebrate. Central to these family celebrations is often a gift exchange.

This gift exchange and preparing for it captures the thoughts of adults months before the holiday arrives. What can be done to make this year's Christmas special and meaningful for my child? The gifts often represent so much more than a mere toy: the gift itself represents the symbols of the season and the love, unity and warmth of family.

Parents of young children, as well as new grandparents, often fret about how to make the Christmas gift more than just another gift. One simple way is to make this year's gift as unique as the child who receives it. A customized gift will live in memory for years to come. Even babies who will have no recollection of the year they were given this gift will treasure their customized jammies as they grow and realize the significance of the gift.

Customized does not necessarily mean expensive. With a little know how you can even customize the gift yourself, but the extra chore during the busy holiday season may not be necessary. There are many internet sites that offer customization of their products for as reasonable a price as free! Almost any toy can be customized. You can add your child's name to a step stool, clothing or blankets of almost any kind, dolls can be customized with names and certificates documenting your child as their parent, pencils, stuffed toys, cars and trucks can all be customized with names or initials.

Toddlers especially like to see their name on things. They may not be able to read, but will recognize the shapes of the letters belonging to their own name. It is a thrill for them to see themselves in print.

Other custom gifts include storybooks that feature your child as a character in the story. These custom books are as simple as adding your child's name or as elaborate as actually using photos of your child in the illustrations as well as their name in the story.

Another popular custom gift for toddlers is a CD of music that has their name in the songs. Toddlers are active and love to dance and sing to most any kind of music. Imagine how pleased and special they will feel when they hear their own name in the songs!

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Getting A High Chair For Your Baby

By Ned Dagostino

Getting a high chair for your baby is one of the things new parents do once the child is able enough to sit up alone. The high chair is ideal for seating him at the dinner table when the rest of the family is having a meal. It makes the family picture complete. If the child is left in its room you'll be worried about its well-being and won't be able to enjoy the meal fully. The child too will benefit from attending the dinner table get-together, picking up little bits and pieces of behavior that will be the beginning of its education. The many options available in high chairs may confuse you a bit. We'll try to remove that confusion here.

The primary feature you should look for is stability. Babies can be quite active at the age when you put them in a high chair. They can easily bend over and unbalance the chair, toppling it over with serious consequences. Stability means that the base should be wide - as compared with its height. You really can't have a chair with its legs spread right out to completely eliminate the risk of toppling over, but it should be reasonably wide. There are ways of lowering the high chair's center of gravity, which will increase stability. In any case your precious baby should *never* be left unattended in the high chair.

High chairs come with safety straps to restrain the child from slipping out of the chair. At the very minimum it must have a crotch strap and a waist strap. If it has straps for the upper body, so much the better. If the high chair has no safety straps, but only provides restraint in the form of a padded bar or tray in front of the child, it is not a good choice, safety wise.

Babies are apt to spill food or dirty themselves quite often. Choose a high chair with machine-washable cushioning which can be removed, cleaned and fitted back on easily. This will help in maintaining hygiene which is essential to keep your child in good health.

Attachable toys are very helpful in keeping the baby from getting bored and fretful. Make sure the toys are baby-safe, that is, they don't have sharp edges or pointed corners, and they don't break easily. Babies like to taste-test everything they can lay their little hands on. So make sure that the paint or finishing on the toy won't make your little darling sick!

There are a few features that are really worth having in a high chair. Ordinary high chairs which require all your attention and two hands to detach the front rest are no good. Coping with a wriggling, struggling bundle of joy while trying to get your child in or out of the chair and having to operate a complicated front rest release mechanism at the same time is a sport worthy of being included in the next Olympics! Get a high chair which has a quick-release front rest. Ordinary high chairs are fixed. Get a reclinable high chair, so that even infants can join you at table. Get one whose height can be adjusted to suit tables of different heights. You'll genuinely appreciate a high chair with a tray which can be popped into the dishwasher. A smaller snack tray in addition to the regular dinner tray is good value for money.

To wind up, the safety and cleanliness features are the most essential features of a high chair for your child. Don't even consider a high chair without the essentials! The other options depend largely on your budget, and how useful they are going to be in your particular case. Getting a durable product is always a good idea, and the same applies to high chairs. Junior's high chair will come in handy for his siblings when it's their time to come on the scene!

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Thursday, December 18, 2008

Baby Sitter Wanted: Reasons Why You Shouldn't Look On Your Own

By Rashel Dan

Is posting a baby sitter wanted sign on your window the best way to find the help you need? You may think so. You should think twice though. There are difficulties and disadvantages to looking for a sitter on your own.

Looking for Your Own Sitter

You think you can easily look for a sitter and maybe you can. This may make you feel like you are in better control of your options. You will also be cutting the cost of fees that sitter agencies and services charge. The advantages of performing your own search may be tempting. There are however, some disadvantages that you should be aware of.

- Time Element - It can take a lot of time for you to find an ideal sitter. This may be well and good if you want to be extra sure that you have the right person. Then again, this may not work out well for you if you want a sitter at the soonest possible time. Waiting for the right one to come along may mean that you would have to postpone whatever you need to do to take care of the kids.

- Ad Results - Good prospects for your baby sitter wanted ad do not come all the time. This is especially true if your ad is only restricted to one area. You may only be advertising in your neighborhood or immediate locality. This may therefore significantly restrict your options.

- Inconvenience - Looking for a sitter on your own means doing everything on your own. This includes checking references and performing background checks. This may be a tedious task on your part. It is especially so if you are not very familiar with the certifications and documents that you would need a sitter to get to prove her clean background. Even if you do manage to perform a good background check, there is still the task of carefully assessing sitter skills and capabilities.

- Limited Option - Looking on your own will limit you to just one hired sitter. This may be to your disadvantage. You may need only one sitter but there is no guarantee that your sitter will always be around. Even the best sitters may have to take some time off for important personal and family matters. That would leave you with no replacement sitter.

Sitter Services

Today, another popular option would be to engage the help of an online service. Now you don't need to manually look for a good sitter. Online services can do that for you. Sitter services list potential sitters in your area. You get to have your pick on ideal candidates. If you pay a higher membership fee, you will also be given access to important sitter information such as character background.

Many sitter services can give you great benefits. They do not however, take away your right to choose and decide. After picking a few prospects from the list in your area, you are given the opportunity to interview your prospects.

You wouldn't need a baby sitter wanted ad if you had a good online sitter service site. Everything you need to find a good sitter is at your finger tips.

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Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Friendship - cultural and personal perspective

By John King

Being the "bridge between Earth and Heaven"(as literature describes it), the fact is that true friendship could never be defined using words; us humans have always shown our limits when it came to expressing what we're feeling. Friendship is about giving without a personal purpose, doing something(or anything) for the other someone without asking or expecting anything in return. When a friend is down, the other one feels that and acts accordingly - cheering him up, visiting without a reason, or just being there. Trust, confidence - are always there in this wonderful equation named the other kind of love.

Being your own friend is the first condition though.. A person that is not his best friend in the first place, can't expect to have a friendship relationship with anyone else. That idea is from classic literature and it's true; and so is a quote, saying: "the greatest sweetener of human life is friendship"; these prove once more the value attributed to friendship in literature, whether we're talking about classic or modern works.

Psychologists propose many theories for explaining friendship, such as: social exchange theory, rational dialectics, equity theory, attachment styles and so on. They concluded that confidence is the most important ingredient in a friendship - this satisfies the human need to share deep secrets without being betrayed; to build this kind of trust, time is necessary, but once the rules broken - wounds don't heal very easy, or they don't heal at all. In the end, as we can imagine, friendship can't really be put into theory exactly, but certain characteristics do apply.

Politics has its own take on the subject, as politicians use the word "friendship" in speeches as a powerful word that works with emotions. Humans are very receptive to this word at their subconscious level, which only means more power for the one who uses it. For example, it has even been used to define relations between states, which eroded its meaning in a way.

Since love transforms itself into a beautiful friendship in the end, we could conclude that it's probably the best human emotion there is - but that would be trying to put it into theory again. The ones who felt it(and I'm sure anyone felt it at least once) know its sweet taste as they also know the bitter sweet of the betrayal. They're both part of our lives and they're here to stay.

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Keeping Yourself and Your Child Healthy for the Holiday Season

By Edie Mindell

Merry Christmas and happy first Christmas with a baby or toddler! Children add their own magic to the already intoxicating feelings of the holiday season. As new parents you are trying to create your own family traditions and spoil your toddler just a little bit.

Yet you are not the only persons concerned with your child's Christmas celebrations. Aunts, uncles, friends, cousins and especially Grandparents will all feel a special desire to be close to your baby at this time of the year. Each person will likely have their own ideas of how the children should be incorporated into the celebration and will want to give your baby holiday blessings and toys!

Holiday and Flu season

Perhaps it is not the first thing that comes to mind when celebrating Christmas with your baby and extended family, but flu season does need to be accounted for. To this end before carting your child to endless dinners and parties it is a good idea to plan a flu avoidance strategy.

Call the host and ask about the health of their family. This is a very understandable question and will not offend. When taking your baby to parties have a supply of hand sanitizer at the ready so that would be admirers don't have to be sent to the bathroom to wash their hands. Wearing your baby in a sling will reduce the requests to hold your child. This keeps baby close and keeps exposure to germs to a minimum.

Holiday Shopping with baby

The crowds, lines and stiff competition involved in holiday shopping is enough to daunt even the most stout hearted, but is especially tricky with your new precious cargo in tow. To this end a little preparation goes a long way. Feed your baby immediately before leaving the house, or even in the car in the parking lot. This reduces the need to feed in public, and may even put your child into a milk coma, meaning she will sleep blissfully for the duration of the shopping trip.

The diaper bag is an invaluable tool. Stock the diaper bag with several diapers, wipes, a bottle, two or three burp clothes, an extra binky, an extra blanket and an extra outfit for the baby as well as a shirt for you. Many a mom has learned the hard way that any of these items might become necessary during an outing.

Remember babies draw a crowd; even strangers will want a peep. Be gracious, but firm. This is your child and you don't have to allow any stranger to look at or touch or kiss your baby. Keep the hand sanitizer at the ready. Put your baby in a sling that hides his or her face or in a stroller with the shades drawn. This sends the signal that baby is not to be disturbed without you having to play the bad guy.

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Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Safety Tips for Baby Furniture

By JB Anthony

Various baby furniture have various sets of safety precautions. However, there are a couple of common baby safety tips you should keep in mind in all furniture.

Placement of Furniture

Believe it or not, the spot where you place your baby furniture can help prevent accidents and injuries to your baby. Cribs for example should never be placed beside a low window or beside a heavy piece of furniture. A baby that is already on the standing phase might fall off from a window or might get crushed under a piece of furniture that might accidentally topple. Another example would be high chairs which should not be placed beside walls or counters since a baby could use these to kick off from and topple a high chair.

Furniture Knobs and Latches

A good baby furniture must be child-proof. Simple leg latches and strap locks of high chairs for example may be operated by a toddler or an older baby which may cause the straps to loosen or the high chair to collapse. Cribs too with side knobs may be tinkered with by a curious baby and cause a crib to collapse.

Age of Baby

The best and safest baby furniture will also depend on the baby's weight and age. Most baby furniture pieces contain age and weight requirements. If you are unsure then simply use your common sense. Some changing tables and strollers will not be able to hold the weight of babies nearing the toddler stage.

You might also want to use baby furniture brackets when your baby starts to stand up and walk around. Brackets installed behind a piece of furniture and attached to the wall can help support furniture that could topple over a curious baby who attempts to scale cabinets and drawers.

Labels

Always check the labels of all baby furniture pieces. Although furniture sold in stores are supposed to be compliant with government safety standards, you should always make sure that your baby's furniture carriers the right label that says so. Warning labels are also another thing to look at. Warning labels will tell you how exactly should pieces of furniture be used and what you should not do with it.

Recalls

Watch out for model recalls. Although most baby furniture in the market are believed to be safe at the time that they are released to consumers, some product flaws are only discovered weeks or months after the release. Always have an ear and eye out for product recalls that may include your furniture model.

Specific Use

All pieces of baby furniture have been carefully designed with babies' safety in mind. You should always remember though that even the safest piece of furniture is intended for use with adult supervision. Never get tempted to let a piece of furniture baby sit your baby for you. Always keep an eye on your baby whether he is on a crib, playpen, high chair or just crawling on the rug on his own.

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Monday, December 15, 2008

Choosing a Child Care Provider

By Carol Ann

Choosing a child care provider can be a difficult task, and one that parents don't take lightly. There are many things to consider when looking for the right person, and thinking through the process carefully will insure you've made a good decision.

The first consideration you'll have will be not to rush things. Make sure you allow yourself enough time to choose a child care provider carefully. Rushing to a quick decision due to time constraints is a big mistake you will want to avoid if possible. If you're rushed to return to work before finding proper child care, then temporary arrangements with a trusted friend or family member are often a viable short term solution.

Your next decision will be to decide what kind of child care will be the best for you. Some parents will need full time child care and some will only need assistance a few days per week. Will you prefer to have someone come to your own home or would you like to drop your child off at a child care facility. Your specific needs most likely will be determined by your work schedule and your family's needs.

Interviewing potential child care providers will be your next step. There are many factors to consider when making your choice. Find out what the adult to child ratio is, to assure your child will have the proper amount of one on one attention. And try to visit the facility when parents will be dropping off or picking up their children. This will give you an opportunity to meet other parents and ask questions of them. Do the caregivers interact with the parents about the child's activities during the day? Notice how the children behave when being dropped off or picked up. Are they happy to be there?

Take the time to check out the individuals and or facilities carefully, and if you are not sure about it, keep going through the process until you are sure. Check out references, and be sure not to just listen to what they are telling you, but also to the things that they aren't saying. Sometimes, those are the biggest clues that will give you the answers you are looking for and which can be instrumental in making your choice.

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Newborn Baby Gift Ideas - Radio Flyer Toys Make Great Keepsakes

By Edie Mindell

Classic toys from a bygone era bespeak the tradition of the season and a connection with antiquity that is renewed with each holiday season. There are some things which seem impervious to the dimming factor time has on most. Christmas and traditions which are woven into its very fabric stand the test of time year after year. Most folks have great memories of the Radio Flyer wagon they got and if they are lucky, have kept.

Babies and the renewal of life, the freshness and love each tiny little bundle brings is also a timeless experience. Each new parent or grandparent will attest to this fact. Babies and the memory of babies stand forever young.

The marriage of babies and Christmas is almost unavoidable. Parents and grandparents, aunts and uncles the world over wait for Christmas to spoil and love the newest additions to their family circles, just as the childless wait for a baby to complete their Christmas celebrations.

Heirloom Gifts

Babies don't usually need a lot, nor are they very aware of the gifts bestowed upon them for their first Christmases. To this end it is fun, and befitting to select gifts of heirloom quality. This kind of gift has a value which goes beyond the item itself and springs up from tradition, love and the memories of antiquity as well as dreams for the baby's future.

Big bucks

An heirloom gift does not need to be expensive, but is usually of a higher quality than the more disposable counterpart. For example, a silver or pewter cup engraved with the babies name and birth date is not an extravagantly expensive gift. Yet the gift itself will last into future generations honoring the special feelings felt for this child. The grandbabies of this baby will share in that birthright of love as the cup passes hands.

Specifics

Heirloom gifts do not need to be fancy; some of the most beautiful heirloom gifts are the simplest. Toys made from wood like wooden cars and trucks or boats and animals are of heirloom quality. Raggedy Ann dolls are also cherished heirloom toys. This kind of heirloom gift can be played with and enjoyed in ways other than just observing it on a shelf.

Other heirloom gifts are less sturdy in play, but no less valued. Gifting a silver picture frame along with a certificate for a photography session is a gift that will certainly be appreciated long after it is given.

To select the perfect heirloom gift for the babies on your list think about traditional gifts such as: silver cups, bronzed baby booties, a pewter rattle. More modern gifts that still qualify as heirloom gifts include: classic books like those by Beatrix Potter or A.A. Milne, well made toys fashioned after eras past, porcelain dolls, bonnets, layettes and christening gowns.

Or think about any of the Radio Flyer toys, Airflow collectibles for pedal planes or tricycles. As a child, there is nothing like being able to have your own set of wheels to cruise around the neighborhood and many of those children will keep that toy forever and ever and even pass it on to their own children.

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Sunday, December 14, 2008

Taking Care Of Newborns To Optimize Their Good Health

By Chris Channing

Caring for new babies is a worrisome thing for new mothers or infant caregivers. They are precious and delicate lives, and every tiny thing can permanently influence its future. Nothing is more precious and easily changed than a newborn childs life. Caring for new babies is a delicate process, and there are some basic things that all new infant caregivers should know.

When caring for a new baby, you should never leave it alone. You need to constantly show the child love, and safety. A baby will form many future habits based on the care it receives as a child. A newborn will develop hardness if he or she is not cuddled enough as a newborn. This sounds silly now, but it is very true.

Since everything in the world is new to a baby, as the baby is new to us, it is important to shield it from dangers that may be prevalent in the world. Keep it away from unhealthy food, unhealthy images, and unhealthy sounds. You want your child to be positive and happy, not sad and unhealthy.

When caring for a new baby, you can also teach him or her to giggle and coo. Babies love doing this, so you need to show it things that will stimulate the development of those happy signs. Introducing the baby to other babies and mommies will teach it that people are great to be around. Everyone wants their child to grow up healthy, happy, and friendly.

Basic things that everyone knows is that new babies require a lot of sleep. Providing a relaxing, quiet, and comfortable environment for your new baby to sleep is a crucial part of his development. Make sure that your baby develops properly by allowing him to get necessary rest.

Caring for new babies requires a lot of time, patience, and willingness to teach and help a new soul grow strong and healthy. This takes a lot of effort and dedication on your part. Caring for new babies means taking a precious life into your own hands and aiding in its positive growth. Its more than anything you have ever experienced.

Closing Comments

Caring for new babies is tedious, but also rewarding and worth it all in the end.

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